Kalo nyampe rumah disambut Ammar

Ibu iya dateng...hihihi...ibu iya dateng! *sambil nari2 girang gitu*
Buka ji-a-bab nya! (Buka jilbabnya)
Buka tasnya!
Mao soso'! (Mau susu alias nenen...hahahaha)


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Melati Kenanga buat Nayla

Nayla : June 4, 2008 - November 07, 2008


Nayla sayang,
Mami Ira belum puas maen sama Nayla...
Mas Ammar juga masih teruuuus nanyain, "Dede Nayla ana bu?"
eh Nayla udah keburu dipanggil sama Allah ya...

Ternyata Allah juga kepengen maen sama Nayla,
Nayla sangat kuat, Nayla sangat pinter,
7 bulan di dunia yang bising, hiruk pikuk, gak karuan,
Nayla hadapin dengan tegar!
Nayla berjuang keras untuk bernafas setiap hari,
Nayla berjuang keras untuk tumbuh setiap hari,
Nayla berjuang keras untuk menyayangi & tersenyum untuk Mama Inai & Papa Widy

Kita semua gak tau sama sekali,
Ternyata Nayla begitu hebatnya!
Dibalik semua derita Nayla utk mengatasi keterbatasan kerja jantung Nayla,
Nayla memberi kebahagiaan untuk Mama, Papa & Kakek Nenek Nayla...
Betapa bangganya Mama Inai menceritakan kelucuan Nayla,
Lahapnya Nayla kalo minum ASI...jadi sarjana ASI eksklusif 6 bulan!

Nayla Sayang,
baru minggu lalu ya kita trial class di gymboree,
mas Ammar udah seneeeeng banget ada temen dede Nayla tiap sekolah nantinya....

Dede Nayla,
sekarang Mas Ammar jadi suka lagu 'Melati-Kenanga' juga
Thanks to Dede Nayla, Mami Ira nyanyi 'sol-mi-mi-fa-re-re' udah pake lyric

Sekarang Nayla udah di 'sana',
Mama Inai begitu tabah & ikhlasnya,
Jadi Allah memilih Mama Inai untuk 'dipinjem' anaknya,Tinggal jemput Mama Inai nanti di surga ya, nak...Amin!

(foto pertama+terakhir mami ira sama nayla, 29/10/2008, 16:16, burger & grillbintaro)

Stop Eksploitasi Anak!

Udah beberapa hari ini gw ketitipan nyawa seorang anak umur 13 taun di rumah gw.

Komplitnya, tadinya dia dititipin ibunya ke asisten gw si sri (yg pegang ammar). Berangkat dr kampung (kebumen), di mut berdua sama si mar calon asisten mertua gw buat bersih2 rumah. Ngakunya sih seumuran (16 taun) sama si yani (asisten gw yg cuci-setrika). Ternyata dia baru 13 taun!

Singkat cerita, baru semalem si mut di rumah sepupunya edu (yg lumayan deket banget dr rumah gw), dia minta pulang. Nangis!
Akhirnya dianterin ke rumah gw (karena kerabat nya yg deket ya si sri ama yani).
Tanya2 kenapa kok nangis minta pulang? Pertama jawabnya krn takut, tambahan keinget ama kampungnya.
Tapi gw teruuusss nanyain, yg mau kerja kamu ato ortu kamu?
Akhirnya dia ngaku dipaksa ortunya, krn ade2nya banyak, dan butuh uang...ouw gosh!!!!

Langsung gw putusin "sri,telpon ortunya,bilang kita pulangin aja.telpon travel,kapan ke jakarta,minta jemput mut disini!"

Eh eh eh...bapaknya gak brenti telpon sri lho! Sehari semalem, truuusss nelponin, nyuruh sri & yani buat ngebujukin mut biar mau kerja, malah minta cariin kerja di komplek gue. Kalo perlu kerja di gue aja (yg pastinya gw udah gak perlu tenaga tambahan lagi lah!)
Pas gw mo ngomong ama bapaknya, dia gak mau! Takut kali...

Hari berikutnya, pamannya si mut yg di jkt telponin sri, katanya suruh kerja sama dia aja (dia supir pribadi, istrinya guru, punya anak 2. Jadi butuh org utk jagain anaknya). Gw bilang sama sri, tanya anaknya mau ato gak? Si mut tegas jawab gak mau. Katanya, dulu pernah ikut bibinya dan dia gak betah! (Lah...berarti ortunya udah bohongin sri juga! Sebelumnya katanya dia blon pernah kerja sama sekali!)

Yang jelas, anak ini blon siap kerja, blon mau kerja, tapi dipaksa kerja!

Gw telpon bapaknya doong...
Eh dia gak mau ngomong ama gue! Dimatiin mlulu! Gila yeee...

Akhirnya gw tulis surat, gw bilang, anda sudah mengeksploitasi anak anda. Memaksa anak anda blablabla...
Oke, semua hari gini butuh uang! Tapi kalo memang anaknya masih dibawah umur (13 taun boook!!!) Ya gak boleh dipaksa doong???
Kenapa gak bapaknya aja yg kerja????
Tokh si mut kerja, maksimal pendapatannya gak lebih dari 400rb / bulan. Coba kalo bapaknya yg kerja? Mungkin bisa lebih! (Misal jadi tukang kebon, ato kuli bangunan...plisss!!!!)
Trus gw jg bilang bahwa di jkt skrg org pada takut ngambil anak di bawah umur utk kerja, soalnya lagi ada kasus syekh puji!

Gila ya!
Moga2 orang2 pada sadar...
Gimana rasanya kalo dirinya sendiri yg dipaksa utk berbuat sesuatu yg di luar kehendaknya? Mau gak?
Ini malah maksain anaknya sendiri?
Anak kandungnya sendiri!!!!

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roseola : akhirnya kena juga!!

waktu dulu rasya-nya mbak yeye kena roseola, gue cuma bertanya2 ngambang, " roseola apaan sih mbak?"
padahal waktu itu udah di jelasin panjang lebar ama mbak yeye tuh,
tapi emang dasar ngambang, yaa..processing di otak gue juga ngambang alias langsung buyar!

begitu kmaren ammar mulai timbul merah2 abis panas 39' 2 hari, baru deh googling, buka buku miriam stophard, bukunya dr. wati, search "roseola", "campak", "cacar air"

dan sempet ke dsa juga sih, dijawab "rash abis panas...gak perlu dikhawatirin"

tapi dasar emak2 kan yeee.....apa sih yg gak dibawa dipikirin?

begini lah kalo suka menyerap informasi dengan ngambang!
jadii....besok2 jangan ngambang lagi ya! hehe

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taken from :
http://kidshealth.org/parent/infections/skin/roseola.html

Roseola (also known as sixth disease, exanthem subitum, and roseola infantum) is a viral illness in young children, most commonly affecting those between the ages of 6 months and 2 years. It is typically marked by several days of high fever, followed by a distinctive rash just as the fever breaks.

Two common and closely related viruses can cause roseola: human herpesvirus (HHV) type 6 and possibly type 7. These two viruses belong to the same family as the better-known herpes simplex viruses (HSV), but HHV-6 and HHV-7 do not cause the cold sores and genital herpes infections that HSV can cause.

Signs and Symptoms

A child with roseola typically develops a mild upper respiratory illness, followed by a high fever (often over 103° Fahrenheit, or 39.5° Celsius) for up to a week. During this time, the child may appear fussy or irritable and may have a decreased appetite and swollen lymph nodes (glands) in the neck.

The high fever often ends abruptly, and at about the same time a pinkish-red flat or raised rash appears on the child's trunk and spreads over the body. The rash's spots blanch (turn white) when you touch them, and individual spots may have a lighter "halo" around them. The rash usually spreads to the neck, face, arms, and legs.

The fast-rising fever that comes with roseola triggers febrile seizures (convulsions caused by high fevers) in about 10% to 15% of young children. Signs of a febrile seizure include:

• unconsciousness
• 2 to 3 minutes of jerking or twitching in the arms, legs, or face
• loss of control of the bladder or bowels

Contagiousness

Roseola is contagious and spreads through tiny drops of fluid from the nose and throat of infected people. These drops are expelled when the infected person talks, laughs, sneezes, or coughs. Then if other people breathe the drops in or touch them and then touch their own noses or mouths, they can become infected as well.

The viruses that cause roseola do not appear to be spread by kids while they are exhibiting symptoms of the illness. Instead, someone who has not yet developed symptoms often spreads the infection.

Prevention

There is no known way to prevent the spread of roseola. Because the infection usually affects young children but rarely adults, it is thought that a bout of roseola in childhood may provide some lasting immunity to the illness. Repeat cases of roseola may occur, but they are not common.

Duration

The fever of roseola lasts from 3 to 7 days, followed by a rash lasting from hours to a few days.

Professional Treatment

To make a diagnosis, your doctor first will take a history and do a thorough physical examination. A diagnosis of roseola is often uncertain until the fever drops and the rash appears, so the doctor may order tests to make sure that the fever is not caused by another type of infection.

The illness typically does not require professional treatment, and when it does, most treatment is aimed at reducing the high fever. Antibiotics cannot treat roseola because a virus, not a bacterium, causes it.

Home Treatment

Until the fever drops, you can help keep your child cool using a sponge or towel soaked in lukewarm water. Do not use ice, cold water, alcohol rubs, fans, or cold baths. Acetaminophen (such as Tylenol) or ibuprofen (such as Advil or Motrin) can help to reduce your child's fever. Avoid giving aspirin to a child who has a viral illness because the use of aspirin in such cases has been associated with the development of Reye syndrome, which can lead to liver failure and death.

To prevent dehydration from the fever, encourage your child to drink clear fluids such as water with ice chips, children's electrolyte solutions, flat sodas like ginger ale or lemon-lime (stir room-temperature soda until the fizz disappears), or clear broth. If you are still breastfeeding, breast milk can help prevent dehydration as well.

When to Call the Doctor

Call the doctor if your child is lethargic or not drinking or if you cannot keep the fever down. If your child has a seizure, seek emergency care immediately.

Reviewed by: Joel Klein, MD
Date reviewed: September 2006

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